Phone Sex 101

Okay guys, I realize some of you are veteran's of the phone sex world, but a little
reminder never hurt anyone... And, for those of you new to the concept, I've put
together a little "lesson" for you! Well, maybe "lesson" isn't the right word, so I
will say "information". That sounds better, don't you agree?

First things first! Phone sex is a naughty little game we play with ourselves...
ah, that was a catchy little double entendre' if I've ever heard one! Sexual
fantasies and masturbation are both very natural processes; one of the thought
process, and the other of the physical. Put them together, along with a very
creative PSO (Phone Sex Operator), and you are bound to have the experience of your
"phone" life! Let's face it, it just feels fucking good!

Which brings me to my first advice for you. As you know, there are thousands of
Flirts on NiteFlirt. You will probably go blind, in a very good way, just by
perusing the site, reading about the Flirts and enjoying some of the eye candy
available to you! I would suggest that you find a Flirt that you feel fits your
niche. Figure out what it is you are looking for and then go about searching the
site for Flirts that excel in the area you are most interested in. You can do this
on NiteFlirt by using the drop down menus.

Read a Flirts feedback and see what other guys are saying about her! While we all
have "off" days, cannot please everyone, get interrupted by a knock at the door, and
so on.... for the most part you can gauge a Flirts abilities by her feedback!
Remember, five stars is the highest a Flirt can be rated, and you also have the
ability to leave written feedback after a call as well. As I said, we all have off
days, and because you have had a "lack buster" experience with a Flirt, doesn't
always mean that she doesn't deserve a second chance somewhere down the road!

Now listen up, because this is very important!! BE VOCAL in what it is you are
seeking. PSO's are not mind readers. As much as we try to be, sometime the psychic
powers just aren't flowing. So, please let us know EXACTLY what type of fantasy or
roleplay you'd like, or what fetish you are into. Then, the very capable PSO can
steer you right where you want to go; going off course is never good for you, the
client, or the PSO. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE... when I ask you what you are into, do
not say, EVERYTHING. Truth of the matter is that you probably aren't into
everything... and, more times than not when you hear my response, you will hang
up... unless you are into hard core strap on play...

Cell phones aren't always the first choice of equipment to be used. You risk a call
being dropped right in the middle of the "good stuff", your battery goes dead at the
most inopportune time, there is oftentimes pesky echos, and the whole "breaking up"
thing just makes for an annoying call, to you and the PSO! I realize a lot of you
guys are calling on the sly and only have your cell phones to make calls with. If
this is the case, make sure your battery is charged up, and plug in that BlueTooth!
Trying to hold a phone, whether it be a cell or other, can be very difficult when in
the midst of, well.... you know!!

Telephone courtesy is also very important. We PSO's are humans with feelings, and
an abrupt hang up is never appreciated. It only takes a second to say thank you or
any other sentiment before ending a call. A hang up makes us feel that we have not
done a good job for you, and we all want to do our very best for you. It doesn't
have to be lengthy, but as I said, a simple thank you is always appreciated! Just
as you thank the girl handing you your food at the drive-thru, we appreciated
kinowing that we are appreciated.

PSO's are not prostitutes! We are providing a service, namely over the phone, and
don't want to get into the "real life" stuff. Of course, I do have several clients
that share their personal lives with me to some degree, primarily about their
relationships, but I am not your saviour and you shouldn't look to me as one. I can
offer advice to you, but that is as far as it goes. I don't doubt that most of you
are upstanding citizens and would be a joy to know off of the service, but I am here
to facilitate fantasies, not set up real life meetings. This is a business not only
to myself, but all PSO's.

I have absolutely no way of finding out your identity via NiteFlirt. NiteFlirt is a
payment processing platform only. Your call is dispatched to me via an 800 number
by NiteFlirt. So, what I am getting at is this... you can tell me your name! I am
pretty good at voice recognition, so hopefully you will only have to tell me once or
twice. I associate your name and voice with your fantasy or fetish. Again, I am
not perfect, and sometimes I may need a reminder. Or, perhaps you have a new
fantasy that you would like to play out... variety is good! From my own experience,
most clients have a fantasy or fetish they are really into and it normally gets
played out lots and lots. But, the great thing about an AWESOME PSO, such as myself
and a few others, is that with each call we can add new twists and turns to make it
seem like a whole new experience! Capeche'?

You will see while perusing NiteFlirt that there are Flirts ranging in price from
.50/min to upwards of 5.99/min. It will go higher with some of the Flirts that
specialize in Financial Domination. Some girls set their prices low to generate
more calls. I charge 1.99/min. because this price has worked best for me.
After all, I am an independent business owner (IBO) on NiteFlirt, and with that comes
business expenses! Uncle Same damn sure wants what is due him. And, then I have to
pay for web design services, featuring, and so forth. Please do not tell me that I
am too expensive or that it would be really nice of me to lower my per minute rate
for you. This, in my opinion, is just TACKY! I have clients that have been calling
me for 3 plus years that have never suggested that I do this, and I don't intend on
starting now. You know the old saying, "you get what you pay for!" I feel, as do
my regular clients, I am worth the 1.99/min., and sometimes they even leave me a
tip! Tipping, of course, is not mandatory. However, as with anyone providing a
service, it is an appreciated bonus!

You will see that many girls have what they term "Wish Lists" on their NiteFlirt
pages or web sites. I do not, nor have I ever solicited gifts. I am not slamming
the girls that do this, but just another one of those things that I feel is TACKY!
I would much prefer a tip if you feel you would like to "spoil me". So, you will
find no Wish List on my listings on NiteFlirt or on any one of my three web
sites.

Your phone sex experience should be an enjoyable one. Speaking for myself, I do
everything within my own code of ethics and NiteFlirt's Terms of Service to provide
you the most fulfilling experience that I can. I can assure you that I put forth
110% on all calls and want to do the best I can in helping you to achieve the outCUM
you are in search of. So, get yourself all nice and CUMfy... get your phone or
earbud in place... gather your toys and/or favorite props... and,